This set of rules is for a romantic and spiritual based "Master"/"slave" relationship. If I can make BDSM rules for this criteria then you can probably make a nice set of rules that fit your own lifestyle. Have fun but think carefully and hard at each rule. I wish I was religious so that I could take on that challenge.
More changes, more detail, more rules. This basically outlines the course training will occur.
This is just a draft, and as always the Master and slave should make changes when and where they feel is best for the relationship. Abuse is defined as any activity that does not meet the safe, sane and consensual rules or that causes intentional mental, physical or spiritual harm.
Please feel free to read though my journal at my other set of rules! They are similar in many ways, but some significant changes and improvements have been made here. Have fun everyone! This lifestyle is about intimacy, love, compassion, fun and individuality.
Requirements - No rule shall get in the way of these basic principles
- This document assumes that the Master is sane and not current addicted to any substances. If the slave feels the Master does not meet the above criteria then the slave is immediately released of any commitment.
- Lies and dishonesty is unacceptable within the relationship by both partners. Any violation of this rule is considered to be a serous violation of trust.
- A safe word will be provided that will immediately stop the activity. The Master and/or slave may request or provide additional words as needed to encourage communication between Master and slave. The safe word should not be used by the slave to control the activity, but as a means to communicate any safety issues. The Master agrees that when the safe word is used, all play will cease and any restrictive devices will be removed as quickly as possible. The Master agrees to never punish the slave when the safe word is used. Mutual communication as to why the safe word was used is required.
- Focused Training to help adjust the slave to the new conditions will be conducted. Failure to meet the rules may result form a reminder to a sever punishment.
- No level of verbal, mental or physical abuse is tolerated. All activities should remain safe, sane and consensual. Both parties agree to do research into all activities performed, and both parties should communicate any health concerns to the other party. The Master and slave are both responsible for safety, and must remain pro-active in preventing harm. Abuse is defined as non-consenting or destructive activities that lead to harm. Safe, sane and consensual.
- The Master slave must tell each other of any health conditions including depression, sickness, a period, any irritation's and lack of sleep. Both the Master and slave must make sure to put health as a top priority in the relationship. This includes the slave's well being, happiness and creativity.
- The Master and slave must always communicate there needs. The Master and submissive may choose to communicate their wants.
- The Master and slave must always communicate there needs. The Master and slave may choose to communicate their wants.
- The Master and slave choose to help improve each others spiritual beliefs ant to help strengthen each other in there personal paths within their spirituality.
- The slave is a free individual who has decided to give herself to her Master. She has made the choice to be owned by her Master until such time as the Master should decide to release her from these bonds. The Master and slave both agree that the term "slave" is one of choice and not a term that is legally binding. The slave agrees to be placed under such restrictions, but her freedom is protected under the laws of the country where the Master and slave live. The Master and slave have agreed to a higher level of commitment within the relationship. The slave has decide to give up its free-will, body, and mind to its Master.
- All rules are governed and bound by each individuals own spiritual beliefs.
Private Rules
- The slave agrees to follow all orders given from her Master and must assume that these orders are in both parties best interest,
- The slave may request a day off from her duties at the Masters discretion.
- The Master must be called Sir or Master. Master is prefered. The slave must call refer to herself in the third person. (Your) Masters slut, toy, pet, slave.
- The slave must shave her body at all times necessary. Hair is not tolerated.
- The slave must not remove any toy or impliment from her body without permission from her Master, unless physical, social and/or mental damage is of concern.
- The slave must regularly keep herself clean at all times, and must take a enema when requested by the Master. No perfume, or lipstick without masters permission. The slave must keep herself physically, mentaly and spiritually healthy with advisements given by her Master.
- The slave must remove her shoes and clothing (when appropriate) when entering the house and put on her private collar. The slave must remain unclothed, however she may wear a bathrobe, blanket and/or socks to keep warm.
- The slave must remember all positions for inspection, penetration, or usage as trained by her Master. When asked, the slave must strip and get in this position.
- The slave must be ready at any time to serve her Master in any way he sees fit.
- The slave must always work to keep the house/apartment clean, and to help with cooking dinner, as time permits.
- When the slave wishes to speak to her Master she must always be in the same room facing her Master. The slave should only talk to her Master when it has the complete attention of him. The slave is encouraged to ask that any distraction be removed.
- When Master is home the slave must sit on the floor unless she asks and is approved to sit on the furniture. The slave must help undress her master for bed, and must kneel next to the bed completely nude until the Master gives permission to lay down.
- Master is to look after the needs of the slave at all times.
- The slave is encouraged to ask for affection or activity when ever needed. The slave may seduce her master, but must never demand or top.
- The slave should love the masters cum and never swallow or remove Masters cum without permission.
- The slave must be granted permission to orgasm.
- Rules maybe added/removed on the Masters request with advisement of the slave.
Public Rules
- A more appropriate and beautiful collar or ribbon should be worn around the neck unless the master suggests otherwise.
- The Master and slaveshould appear to act civilized in public. Labels such as Master, Sir, Slut, Toy or slave should only be used when in private.
- The slave is to walk on the side of the curb away from the road.
- The Master is to open all doors for the slave. This includes the car door only if the Master is driving.
- The Master is to help the slave with her coat, and to pull out her chair to help her sit down.
- The Master is to stand when the slave is to walk away from the Master.
- Master will offer his sub his coat, when the sub is cold.
